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(Date Posted:12/02/2005 22:24:40)
Yes its hard for the flesh but not for the spirit. Especially if you experienced sex before getting saved
like myself I know what its like. However I know God is a keeper the feeling is natural it is something we are made
with. Alot of times outside influences make it tougher to bare than what it really is. To me its a blessing to know a virgin has kept themselves until marriage that will Silence all the Critics who says it cant be done. I'm proud to see my Little Sis Get married on the 19NOV knowing that her husband right now will be her first. She isnot the only one there are plenty men and women. We just have to understand the values of our bodies and the Consequences of not waiting on marriage
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(Date Posted:12/04/2005 03:02:43)
thanks for your insight mega777.and congrats to your sis's engagement.i do think that "waiting till marriage" can be done.even if you dont wanna wait,find it hard,hate going through the temptations,tired of of ppl flauting it.i think it can be done.
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(Date Posted:12/04/2005 08:52:48)
I think the important thing is to always look to JESUS, no matter what any haters out there say. Some folk who don't know Jesus might criticize you for waiting on the Lord.
But hey, Jesus didn't go hook up with any woman, you know? And some folk think the women back in Jesus' day were ugly, but we all know that ain't true!!!  Cause look at it like this....Jesus was the annointed MESSIAH, so you best believe it was a whole lotta Jewish and Samaritan mamas who wanted their daughter to marry the Messiah! And you best believe it was a whole lotta young ladies that probably had a crush on Jesus, because He was so kind and loving in a way that no other man ever was, and He truly cared for people and met their needs and helped them! I'm just being real, y'all! So if Jesus could trust His Father and refuse to give in to temptation, we as Christians can do the same! And no matter what anybody's done in the past, in Christ we are a new creation, so the Spirit of God gives us power to live holy and pleasing to God.
Keep living for Jesus, and stay true! God has a blessing for you, so let's bless God!!!!
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(Date Posted:12/08/2005 07:03:23)
SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS AS PLAIN AS GOD SAID IT IS FORNICATION AND HE SAID IN HIS WORD THAT FORNICATORS AND ADULTERORS HAVE NO PLACE IN HEAVEN. WE CAN'TEXCUSE IT FOR BEING TOTALY COMMITTED TO GOD MEANS THAT WE ARE CHASTE AND BOUND WITH THE WORD WE ARE TO GIRD UP OUR LOINS AND WALK IN THE SPIRIT SO AS NOT TO FUFILL THE LUST OF THE FLESH AND LUST IS A SIN FOR WE DO SO WITH THE UNCTION OF OUR BODY AND WHAT WE SEE AND IF WE ARE NOT COVERED THEN WE FALL INTO SATANS TRAP AND SUCCUMB AND USE OUR BODIES WHICH ARE THE TEMPLES OF GOD FOR FILTH,AND DECAY HENCE THE DISEASES SO PREVALENT TODAY, FOR THIS IS NOT GOD'S WAY THATS WHY HE SAID I WOULD THAT YE MARRY STEAD YOUR BODY BURN,HUSBAND GIVE UNTO YOUR WIFE AND WIFE UNTO YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOUR BODIES BELONG TO THE OTRHER BUT TO COME AWAY FROM EACH OTHER FOR FASTING BUT TO ENSURE THAT SATAN DOES NOT ENTRAP YOU THEY MUST COME TOGETHER AGAIN TO WARD OFF TEMPTATION ..... BE YE STRONG IN THE LORD AND THE POWER OF HIS MIGHT WE HAVE NONE OF OURSELVES.
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(Date Posted:01/22/2006 13:45:55)
yo i'm 19 and its not hard at all for me. i have a saved christian girl that i have been with for 3 years and have known for 11. We on purpose do things to squash any temptation before starts I.E. going out with our other Christian friends. Having a curfew for ourselves. Not spending the night at each other place even though her mother cool with it and I got my own joint. and when the urges do seep through even our precautionary net I remember that God won't put more on me than I can beat and that there is no temptation common to man... and that I can do all things through Christ who strenghtens me. and if you really believe it and meditate on that you'll notice it will start to be a breeze. I am convinced that sex is wonderful but i also know that doing it Gods way will give me pleasure with my wife most can only dream about. peace
hey pplsim 17 yrs old and i decided that i was gonna wait till marriage for sex.it aint easy though.i have a question.how hard is it to remain a virgin till marriage?i get tempted alot because sex looks sooooooo fun.lol.and yall cant tell me it dont.lol.i really wanna have sex because thats my natural desire but i wanna be married first.i wanna know is it hard for yall too?what do yall do to supress those urges?
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(Date Posted:01/24/2006 21:34:28)
Bro- Have you read EVERY YOUNG MAN's BATTLE or EVERY MAN's BATTLE? Not just to this young cat but to ALL the MEN!! and YOUNG MEN out there who struggle in this area these are GREAT references that will help you.
I have EVERY WOMAN'S BATTLE and it has helped me. Women don't feel they have to deal with this issue but OH yes we do ours is a bit different but we go through. Emotionally. Women get this book.
I am married been married for 11/ 2yrs. There are LOTS of complications(to put it lightly) that comes with premarital sex. Just picture 1000 people(figuratively) behind you while you are making love to this person even if you are married. When you do get married if you are not still "untainted"lol! Than you won't have this problem. But EVERYONE knows that flesh, Once you "pop you can't stop" (like a pringle, get your mind out the gutta)lol! You may want more and more and more and than the woman you thought was going to be your wife is pregnant and your relationship is falling apart now you soul-tied to this girl but you still "flesh wit fleshly desires" so you get another girl and another.
You see where I'm going. And unless you get a virgin everytime(GOOD LUCK)lol!! You gettin down wit EVERYONE she got down wit too. That's where the 1000 people come from.
So to save your marriage from A WHOLE LOT of Drama, commit your body to GOD. Make a vow to yourself and GOD that you will keep yourself "pure". Learn to bounce your eyes, which that book talks about, turn the tv when some sexually suggestin thing comes on. Check your motives for watchin certain things. If they are not clean than turn it OFF!!! YOu have to make a stand. THis will help you and your wife a WHOLE LOT. TRUST me. Betta yet TRUST GOD. Stay in there man. Get support from your church. Maybe you can help other young guys like yourself who is dealin wit this issue. Get those books.
I pray this helps. YOur sister in Christ.
I.S.I-iron. sharpens.iron. tru-news
Another thing Sex is HIGHLY over rated if it ain't out of TRUE LOVE. And you GOD is LOVE and sex was ment for marriage as an act of worship. YOu are worth SOOO much more than someone's LAY. Remember that.
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(Date Posted:05/06/2006 23:15:01)
Reply to : tex-iz
hey pplsim 17 yrs old and i decided that i was gonna wait till marriage for sex.it aint easy though.i have a question.how hard is it to remain a virgin till marriage?i get tempted alot because sex looks sooooooo fun.lol.and yall cant tell me it dont.lol.i really wanna have sex because thats my natural desire but i wanna be married first.i wanna know is it hard for yall too?what do yall do to supress those urges?
im 15 and im tempted ALL the time, i try to think about the gift God gave me. it's not ment 4 just anybody. im not sayin this always works cause it definatly doesnt. sometimes u have to get up and walk away. Not putting yourself in a sexual situation doesnt help either.
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(Date Posted:05/30/2006 01:43:55)
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well, i really appreciate it TT, and dang, i just had de-ja-vu. wierd, i've had de-ja-vu like 12 times in the past 3 or 4 months, moreso than any other time in my life. you know REAL dejavu, where everythang, lil detail is exactly the same! not just "this seems familiar", but "this and this and this happened this exact way at this time before". :-P ... anyway, lolyeah, i guess when i said"I repent and vow not to make that mistake again."i meant that for anybody who was offended at my "rawness", including Tex-iz. But if u think it needs to be addressed to him specifically, aintno thang, i just dont want him feeling like we "babyin" him now, lol. but tex-iz, i'm sorry for notbeing as patient, loving and understanding as i should have been when talking to you. God bless
Hahah man you went from the zone to here you still on this! I know you dont know who this is, i'll give you a hint...Redd.....hahaha been a long time homie!
Sorry to go off topic....But im all for the Brother who talked about Being single....I get that treatment also when I tell people I want to devote my life Totally, I may have made my mistakes but I Dont want to get married just "so i can get some" thats dumb and TOTALLY not what marrage is about, Sex is an important part IMO but it only lasts for a short while, after your night what then? And you can have the woman of your dreams but she will still get on your nerves and vice versa, what about those times your upset with each other?
If you just need "a release" or "your Lonely" you arent ready for marrage, cause those feelings, althought tough to shake, are fleeting and if your walk isnt tight with God Flesh, and demonic forces will put the smack down on your relationship. Why do you think Christians have such a high divirce rate? Most marrages dont go over 3 years, cause two horny Lonely People hooked up just to get they sex on.
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