You are17 years old.
That's the age when your hormones are racing.
If Christ can keep you from having sex right now; when you get married, Christ can keep you married for the rest of your life!
Think about this.
When you have sex with someone, you create a spiritual tie or a spiritual bond with that person.
Once you have created this spiritual bond; if you ever have to break up with that person, it will feel like your tongue is stuck to a frozen poll & you are trying to pull it off! You will end up leaving a piece of your soul; stuck on that person's soul, forever!
Breaking that bond, can devastate you both physically & emotionally.
God created sex as a spiritual bond between a man & his wife.
Don't bond yourself with anyone you don't want to marry. Don't bond yourself with anyone you don't want to be with for the rest of your life! The result will be devastating! Harmful! Suicidal! Painful!
God does not want you to go through this!
Wait until God shows you who to marry. That is always the best way.
Also; every time you have sex with someone, you loose a little bit of your ability to bond with your marriage partner. After having sex with multiple partners, sex begins to lose its bonding ability. So by the time you get married, sex no longer has the ability to hold your marriage together; because, you have given yourself away to so many people. You will end up going to your marriage bed with all those people attached to your soul.
Read Jaunita Bynum's Book "No More Sheets" It goes into more details.
You don't want to do this to yourself or to your soul mate.
So wait until you get married before you have sex.
This is God's perfect plan for your life.
Anything else will damage you.
If you have already had multiple sex partners, be encouraged!
God can cleanse you & make you brand new.
Just flee from sex & sin no more. God will make you whole again and bond you to the person of your dreams. I am whiteness!
Written in Love,
Richelle
Youth Minister
And, Yes I am married.
And, Yes I have experienced this!
